The one thing bothering me right now is how people can talk so much shit about an individual and break them down like they're some kind of monster.
Not that the talking shit part is what bothers me, but the turning around after that persons said shit and acting like they're all buddy-buddy with that person is what kills me the most.
People like that seriously need to get their shit together.
I just don't understand what can honestly make them hate this person one minute and then act like they're best friends and shit, the next.
It just shows and proves to me, how fake some of these people I associate myself with really are.
Therefore, I've decided..since it's almost that time of the year to reevaluate my life and everything in it..I've decided why not reevaluate the people who I choose myself to be surrounded by.
Who wants to start off their New Year with negative and pathetic people in their life? Definitely not me!
So today..(I'm starting early), I've decided to slowly let those people out of my life and cut them loose.
Not exactly "burning bridges", but letting go of all that's no good in my life.
I'm sure I'll feel more confident in my decision a little later on..
But I know in the end, it's all for the best.
3 comments:
I used to just put up with people that I didn't get along with, only difference was I never said shit about them but I just didn't have a close bond with them that they hoped to have with me. I literally was just nice to be nice cause it's my nature.
I think even with my ex best friend, even though there was such crazy drama attached to our history, at least we can be civil with each other now and not just pretend or force ourselves to be nice. I have my awkward moments where I feel a little weird, but then again it's almost like she's a stranger to me. If people just kept their limits.. I think you, myself and everyone else wouldn't be so bothered by it when others are treating others the way they treat them by pretending they're the best of friends when in fact.. one is running their mouth like theres no tomorrow.
Each situation is different, that I know. But the kind that really bug me are when people talk hella shit about someone (behind closed doors) that they don't even know ..like never even took a chance to get to know. And yet, this person who's running their mouth doesn't even have anything to show for themselves.
It's pathetic people like that sis who I can't stand. AND THEN, when you see them in front of that person they were talkin' shit about, they're like kissin' their ass! No bueno!
Your situation it's different. That I can understand. It's a more complex relationship and you both know eachother. But with this case, it's just about people being judgemental, immature and fake.
Mannnnn, I think that's where I've learned how not to be around folks like that too. I think it took awhile for me to realize who was like that but ever since then... I've kept myself away from people like that. That's pretty shitty that people have the cahones to talk shit like that and then be suck ups and act like the person they're nice too is their best friend in the world. And then going back and forth constantly.. that's a whole load of annoying!
I'm glad you're gonna get rid of folks like that in your life cause it'll do you no good to witness that mess and it'll just bug you more especially when you know the "real deal". People these days... they'll never learn.......
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