What each individual decides to do or not do is obviously his or her own choice. I think it's wrong when an outside person comes in and tries to make it seem like their just "stating their own opinion" or giving their two cents when clearly, within their statement of proving their point, they're pretty much attacking what the other individual's choice was.

I get that "to each his own.." business, but if I sense some type of disagreement about my choice and what I decide to do, I don't need to hear it. I don't need anyone else's opinion on what I need to do or better yet, what's best. 

I'll do me and you do you. That's all there is to it.