Friday, March 25, 2011

Do you, and only you.

It bugs me to see how some people just can't be original nowadays. It's like they gotta follow a certain trend or do whatever everybody else is doing just so they wouldn't feel "left out". The fact that they can't make their own decisions and have to base it on what they think others would agree upon, is just ridiculous.

Now I for one, am not saying that at some point in life, never followed the crowd or found myself being pressured to doing something because I thought it would make feel cool..because I did, but then I grew up. Some people just never do. Acting and doing what other people are doing because you feel it's right, should never be an option. Acting and doing what you want to do because YOU want to do it, is what matters. Hell, that's how it should be. Not being able to think for yourself, that's a shame. And to think that I've come across plenty of these people in my life...well, it's just sad.

Feeling out of place or on your own sometimes, is a part of being yourself. Figuring out what's right for you, only you can decide. Don't let other people's lives determine how you want to feel, look, act or be. They ain't living your life and your not living theirs. Your choices are what makes you or breaks you. Never let anyone or anybody decide what's right for you. Because it's okay to be on your own sometimes, especially if it's for all your right reasons. 

2 comments:

Jackie said...

Well said! Love it ;)))

maritessr. said...

Thanks Jackie :) I'm glad someone has the same piece of mind!